When to Light a Yahrzeit Candle: A Complete Guide: 1 Minute to Understanding Yahrzeit Candle Lighting

Lighting a Yahrzeit candle is a deeply significant tradition in Jewish practice, meant to honor and remember the loved ones who have passed away. The Yahrzeit (meaning “anniversary” in Yiddish) candle is traditionally lit in the home for a full 24 hours, offering a symbolic light of memory and reflection. Understanding the proper timing and customs for lighting a Yahrzeit candle ensures that you’re observing this meaningful ritual with sincerity and respect.

When to Light the Yahrzeit Candle

The Yahrzeit candle is lit on several specific occasions:

1. On the anniversary (Yahrzeit) of a loved one’s passing: The candle is kindled at sunset the evening before the Hebrew date (not the secular date) of the passing, as Jewish days begin at sundown. If you’re unsure of the exact Hebrew date, there are many online converters and Jewish calendars available to help you determine it.
2. During Yom Kippur and other major holidays: It is also customary to light a Yahrzeit candle at sundown on the eve of Yom Kippur, as well as during the holiday of Shemini Atzeret (for those in some communities), and at the start of the first and second nights of Passover and Shavuot.

Where and How to Light the Candle

The Yahrzeit candle, typically made of wax or oil, is placed in a safe location in the home, such as on the kitchen counter or dining table. No special prayers are required, though many choose to recite the Mourner’s Kaddish or reflect on the life of the departed. The candle must be allowed to burn undisturbed for the full 24 hours.

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Tips 1:

Always ensure the candle is placed away from flammable objects and in a location where it can burn safely for 24 hours. Consider using a glass-encased Yahrzeit candle for added safety, especially in homes with children or pets.

FAQ

Q: What time should I light the Yahrzeit candle?

A: The candle should be lit at sundown on the evening preceding the actual Hebrew date of passing or on the eve of the holiday for Yom Kippur and other mentioned festivals.

Q: Do I need to recite a specific prayer when lighting the Yahrzeit candle?

A: No specific prayer is required, but many choose to recite the Mourner’s Kaddish or reflect quietly on their loved one’s memory.

Q: Can I use an electric Yahrzeit candle?

A: While the tradition calls for a wax or oil candle, some use electric versions for safety reasons, especially in hospitals or nursing homes. It’s best to follow your family’s or community’s custom.

Q: What if I miss lighting the candle at the correct time?

A: If you forgot to light the candle at the proper moment, you may still do so when you remember, continuing to honor your loved one’s memory with intention.

Q: Why is the Yahrzeit candle burned for 24 hours?

A: The continuous 24-hour burn symbolizes the enduring memory and spirit of the departed, representing the soul’s ongoing presence.